5 Positive Changes to Embrace After Divorce

Jodie Lane, AAMS®, CDFA®, MSEM • October 23, 2023

       

Navigating divorce is undoubtedly challenging, often clouding the prospect of future happiness. However, it's crucial to remember that if you're taking this step, it's in pursuit of a more fulfilling life. In the aftermath of divorce, many find newfound freedom, opportunities for personal growth, and even deeper connections with loved ones. Let's explore some of these silver linings that make life post-divorce not just bearable, but potentially enriching.


#1 – Rediscover Yourself with Free Time 

Gone are the days of constantly juggling family and spousal commitments. Now you have the luxury of time just for you. Feelings of loneliness might linger initially, but seize this moment to enroll in that dance class you've always dreamed of, or engage in local meetup groups. It's a pathway back to discovering who you truly are.


#2 – Reclaim Your Personal Space 

Say goodbye to shared spaces—no more negotiating over the garage, kitchen, or even the bathroom sink. Enjoy the simple joy of not having to clean up someone else's mess, like those annoying whiskers in the sink!


#3 – Sleep Like Royalty 

The bed is now entirely yours. Relish the experience of stretching out as much as you want, taking up every inch of your queen or king-sized bed. Plus, if your ex-partner snored, you'll find the newfound silence to be a peaceful revelation.


#4 – Command of the TV Remote 

Your television time is now yours to control. Whether you're into binge-watching reality TV shows or kicking back with a weekend of sports, the choice is now entirely up to you.


#5 – End of Financial Conflicts 

With the division of assets complete, you can finally put an end to those never-ending money debates that strain many relationships. Now, your financial decisions are yours alone to make.



This is your golden opportunity to embrace the next chapter of your life with enthusiasm and purpose. Make every moment truly matter—you've got this!

This information is not intended to be a substitute for seeking legal advice from an attorney. For legal or tax advice please seek the services of a qualified attorney and/or qualified tax professional. 

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